Making Self-Direction Less Scary for Scapegoat Survivors
Have you felt forbidden from saying what you really think or feel in close relationships? Does it seem like no one else will follow if…
Jack James Reid, LPCC #4195
Breaking the Stressed-Out Habit of Mind for Scapegoat Survivors
Do you find it strangely easier to be in a state of worry than calm? If you feel calm, does it seem like you must…
The Scapegoat Child Projects Their Good Qualities Onto Others
Scapegoat children may survive by projecting their good qualities onto their narcissistic parent. This tactic can lead to a habit of self-devaluation as adults. Are…
The Scapegoat Survivor’s Belief in Their Defectiveness
An adult scapegoat survivor’s belief in their “defectiveness” helps them survive childhood. However, it can lead to painful feelings in adulthood. Is it hard to…
Safe Relationships for Scapegoat Survivors
Feelings of shame and worthlessness can get in the way of finding safe relationships for scapegoat survivors. Does it seem unlikely that others would want…
When the Scapegoat Child Sees No Gleam in Their Parent’s Eye
Do you find it hard to believe that others are excited to see you? Does life feel like a gauntlet that you have to navigate…
How Does Therapy Actually Work for Scapegoat Survivors?
Does psychotherapy seem vague and difficult to understand how it actually helps? Do you worry that participating in therapy means being told that you are…
What the Scapegoat Child Has To Give Up To Survive
Are you the scapegoat in your family? Discover how narcissistic parenting forces children to abandon self-worth and agency to survive.
How the Scapegoat Child Tries To Love and Be Loved
As a scapegoat child was it hard to feel loved by your parent? Did it seem like you had little of value to offer your…
5 Steps That Lead to the Scapegoat Child’s Suffering..and Healing
Discover the 5 key steps that explain a scapegoat child's suffering and their path to healing from narcissistic abuse.