quest to be important to the narcissist

Giving up the Quest To Be Important to the Narcissist

Have you had a parent or partner in your life whose approval you wanted so badly yet always seemed out of reach? Did life feel more exciting or even more worth living when you were in the company of this person and much less so when away from him or her? Has the quest to be important to the narcissist  …

orbit of the narcissistic parent

Free Yourself From the Narcissist’s Orbit

I think there’s a lesson in how the most basic unit of life – the atom – is structured and how our inner experience is meant to be structured.  Here’s what an atom looks like: You have the center or nucleus of the atom that has these sub-atomic particles called protons and neutrons that carry a positive charge.  Then you …

“Am I Making All of This Up?” – Asked by Scapegoats Everywhere

Scapegoating is a common behavior among narcissistic abusers. They will single out one person in their life and blame them for all of their problems. This can be an ex-partner, a family member, or even a co-worker. The narcissistic abuser will often try to gaslight their victim and make them question their reality. Someone recently articulated this question in the …