I write a lot on this blog about the importance of getting psychological, emotional and physical distance from a narcissistic abuser. Some viewers of my Youtube Channel have wisely pointed out that sometimes this isn’t possible. A viewer recently asked: “As an adult, how to handle living with a parent who has strong narcissistic and controlling behaviors, when you have …
Giving up the Quest To Be Important to the Narcissist
Have you had a parent or partner in your life whose approval you wanted so badly yet always seemed out of reach? Did life feel more exciting or even more worth living when you were in the company of this person and much less so when away from him or her? Has the quest to be important to the narcissist …
When a Narcissist Claims the Scapegoat Is ‘Too Sensitive’
Do you fear that if you say what you don’t like in a relationship that your partner will accuse you of being ‘too sensitive? Do you fear that if you say what want more of in a relationship that your partner will accuse you of being ‘too needy’? Do you work really hard to make it seem like nothing bothers …