Take off the Scapegoat Nametag at the Narcissistic Family’s Conference
I recently thought about the metaphor of a business conference for what happens when a narcissistic family puts a child in the role of scapegoat.…
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Heal From Narcissistic Abuse by Taking Others’ Support for Granted
Did you work extremely hard to make your narcissistic partner or parent happy yet always seem to be falling behind? Was it especially dangerous to…
Dealing With Regret for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse
In the comments from an earlier Youtube Video, someone posted this: Jay, could you do a video about REGRET?? Not living to full potential [in…
When Scapegoats Escape Inward To Survive Narcissistic Abuse
You may have heard the saying that when you point a finger at someone else there are always three fingers pointing back at you. There’s…
Trust What the Narcissist Shows You Not What You Hope For
In my experience, scapegoat survivors of narcissistic abuse often find it very difficult to take the narcissist’s behavior towards them at face value. When the…
Mending the Split: What Therapy Can Help With After Narcissistic Abuse
Imagine a child who’s three years old and is exquisitely conscious of the child’s smallness and needfulness. At times he feels a continuity of that…
How Long Does It Take To Recover From Narcissistic Abuse?
This question comes up a lot in my experience with survivors of narcissistic abuse. And how can it not? If you have to live under…
Recover From Narcissistic Abuse by Deciding How You’re Spoken To
I want to talk about a destructive tactic used by a narcissistically abusive parent and how you can begin to heal from it and live…
What To Do After Creating Distance From a Narcissistic Abuser
This person purchased my online course for recovery from narcissistic abuse and accompanying private facebook group for those enrolled in the course and asked an…
Why a Narcissist Undermines Your Judgment
Do you find it difficult to know your own opinion in life? Do you tend to regard others as the ‘experts’ and defer to their…