The Science Behind Gaining Distance From the Narcissistic Abuser
In every blog, I talk about the 3 Pillars of Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse. Today I want to dig into why the second pillar is…
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The Scapegoat Child’s Role & Symptoms in Narcissistic Abuse
If you grew up with a narcissistic parent and felt devalued most of the time then you were that parent’s scapegoat. The scapegoat is someone…
Take off the Scapegoat Nametag at the Narcissistic Family’s Conference
I recently thought about the metaphor of a business conference for what happens when a narcissistic family puts a child in the role of scapegoat.…
Dealing With Regret for Scapegoat Survivors of Narcissistic Abuse
In the comments from an earlier Youtube Video, someone posted this: Jay, could you do a video about REGRET?? Not living to full potential [in…
What To Do After Creating Distance From a Narcissistic Abuser
This person purchased my online course for recovery from narcissistic abuse and accompanying private facebook group for those enrolled in the course and asked an…
When Language Gets Weird After Narcissistic Abuse
Do you find it difficult to know your own opinion in life? Do you tend to regard others as the ‘experts’ and defer to their…
How Scapegoats Can Speak Their Voice After Narcissistic Abuse
Do you have difficulty knowing what you want for yourself? Do relationships seem to be all about what the other person wants and needs? Do…
Feeling Like an Outcast After Being the Narcissist’s Scapegoat
Have you often felt different from everyone else in group settings? Has it seemed like a matter of when, not if others will see you…
What a Scapegoat Sacrificed Is What Saves After Narcissistic Abuse
Most scapegoat survivors of narcissistic abuse struggle to know they can safely experience themselves as they actually are. They’ve had to don a costume of…
The Scapegoat’s Instinct To Include Others
In my work with individuals who have survived being the scapegoat in their family of origin I am almost always struck by their deep capacity…