Trust What the Narcissist Shows You Not What You Hope For
In my experience, scapegoat survivors of narcissistic abuse often find it very difficult to take the narcissist’s behavior towards them at face value. When the…
Mending the Split: What Therapy Can Help With After Narcissistic Abuse
Imagine a child who’s three years old and is exquisitely conscious of the child’s smallness and needfulness. At times he feels a continuity of that…
How Long Does It Take To Recover From Narcissistic Abuse?
This question comes up a lot in my experience with survivors of narcissistic abuse. And how can it not? If you have to live under…
Breaking the Myth of the Narcissistic Abuser’s Specialness
Sometimes in the process of recovery from narcissistic abuse it can feel like one is being pulled back towards the narcissistic parent or partner. This…
Recover From Narcissistic Abuse by Deciding How You’re Spoken To
I want to talk about a destructive tactic used by a narcissistically abusive parent and how you can begin to heal from it and live…
What To Do After Creating Distance From a Narcissistic Abuser
This person purchased my online course for recovery from narcissistic abuse and accompanying private facebook group for those enrolled in the course and asked an…
Why a Narcissist Undermines Your Judgment
Do you find it difficult to know your own opinion in life? Do you tend to regard others as the ‘experts’ and defer to their…
When Language Gets Weird After Narcissistic Abuse
Do you find it difficult to know your own opinion in life? Do you tend to regard others as the ‘experts’ and defer to their…
How Scapegoats Can Speak Their Voice After Narcissistic Abuse
Do you have difficulty knowing what you want for yourself? Do relationships seem to be all about what the other person wants and needs? Do…
Moving Out of the Narcissistic Parent’s Home for Scapegoats
Rick was another anonymized client who grew up as the scapegoat in a family dominated by a narcissistic mother. He was roundly criticized and yelled…