“Yeah but…” How the Scapegoat Survivor Discounts Their Strengths
Do you add caveats to your strengths or accomplishments? Does it seem like you are not as mature, developed or confident as others? Have you…
Do you add caveats to your strengths or accomplishments? Does it seem like you are not as mature, developed or confident as others? Have you…
In most families, parents protect and respect their children. This protection and respect does not falter when the child needs something. Nor when the child…
Do you experience your ideas to be less captivating than others’ ideas? When you are alone, can you feel flat or lifeless? Do you find…
In every blog, I talk about the 3 Pillars of Recovery from Narcissistic Abuse. Today I want to dig into why the second pillar is…
As a child, did you feel… …like everything you did was wrong? …like there was an aching hole inside that never seemed to fill up?…
If you grew up with a narcissistic parent and felt devalued most of the time then you were that parent’s scapegoat. The scapegoat is someone…
I recently thought about the metaphor of a business conference for what happens when a narcissistic family puts a child in the role of scapegoat.…
Did you work extremely hard to make your narcissistic partner or parent happy yet always seem to be falling behind? Was it especially dangerous to…
In the comments from an earlier Youtube Video, someone posted this: Jay, could you do a video about REGRET?? Not living to full potential [in…
You may have heard the saying that when you point a finger at someone else there are always three fingers pointing back at you. There’s…